One of the many settings it has is to swap the male character with a female one, it's done during the game when you can select which sex actions you want, 's' to enable the shortcuts, then press 'n' to bring up a list of options.
There's an illusionsoft discord (with mods channel) you might have luck asking on I used to have both, but I can't find them to upload them for you, so I must have deleted them at some point. , I'm assuming he means in the actual, I can't seem to find the link for it, but there is a futa mod that lets you use female cards as the male, and there's a mod who has a dick as one of the accessories for women (might be drfeelgood's?).
